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Why JOI?

I love doing JOIs (jerk off instructions) because I think it’s a really fun thing to do and creates a positive experience for my viewers and myself. When I first got into camming, I had never heard of a JOI and when I found out what it was, I was shocked to find out that women telling men what to do with their cocks was a thing! Once I realized that it was a form of submission, I totally understood. I love the idea of giving up control and being told what to do, especially sexually. However, being a natural submissive, myself, I had a hard time getting used to the idea of instructing not only one person to stroke his cock to orgasm, but hundreds. Jason assured me that it was definitely hot to be told what to do while masturbating sometimes, even for dominant men like him. That turned me on a lot.

Neither one of us was super familiar with JOIs, so we looked up videos together to learn about it. After watching a good number of them, I started to get the jist of how they worked and decided to come up with my own style, using techniques from the different videos I had seen, some of my own intuition and a lot of Jason’s advice. He has experimented with many different ways of masturbating and had some great ideas to share. Due to a combination of factors, my JOIs have elements of self-exploration, self-love, encouragement, domination/submission, challenges, cum denial, teasing, trainers, edging, positivity, motivational thoughts, a bit of LOA theory and some neurology/psychology pseudo-science. Why all that? Because masturbating is a total mindbody experience and I think you should be able to get the most out of it! I take fapping quite seriously.

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